The Humble Hobbit life lessons.

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The Hobbit, and its characters offer some great insights.

Over the weekend I saw the movie The Hobbit: an unexpected journey with my friends L & L.

I just love stories like this and being a Kiwi revel in seeing my glorious country on the big screen. Hearing Crowded House’s Neil Finn is always a treat. And of course I am loyal Peter Jackson fan of many years, see Brain Dead (warning - nauseous making) and my all time favourite Meet the Feebles – a Muppets meets the Soprano’s film depicting characterizations within the entertainment industry. I saw it many years ago and I still giggle at the thought. Irreverent to say the least.

Now the current Hobbit creation his is based on a fantasy tale written by J. R .R. Tolkien, a classic in science fiction circles and an enchanting read, highly recommended to all.  Watching the picture unfold with my choc top in hand, I was excited in my 3 d glasses.

A journey into ones values and character.

You see it is a Quest. And as the Quest unfolds each player’s character is developed a little further, much as we are as we continue to grow in our life quest. How will you develop your character in 2013?

This adventure joins together an unlikely bunch that ultimately becomes a band of brothers (the importance of family and relationships). They are not all intrepid adventurers, with Bilbo Baggins (A.K.A The Hobbit, no spoiler alert as the book has been in publication since 1937) a reluctant 14^th member of the party assembled to seek the treasure held by the dragon Smaug.

Wizard Gandalf is the quest assembler. He is a wise mentor of indeterminate age but infinite wisdom; we all need to find our inner Wizard to call on at times. He also sometimes simply does not what to do but will try something. Perhaps you can relate?  Can you be your own Mentor to turn to for sage advice?

Now Bilbo, being a Hobbit is the smallest and least battle seasoned member of the 14. He has no real talents to speak of and is scorned by Dwarven King Thorin. Bilbo almost gives in to his homesickness for the Shire hearth of his, but pride keeps him going.

Lucky for Thorin who is saved from certain death with the actions of a plucky hobbit.  In the next scenes Thorin recognizes his error of judgment and apologizes to a humble Bilbo. I am a big believer a well-timed sincere apology can be a relationship saver, if not a lifesaver!

While Dwarves are small in stature, they are strong in hand and heart, with fierce loyalties and often-fixed beliefs. Their enemies are the Elves, who are pragmatists and opted out of battle they believed they had no part in.

Eventually they will have to challenge their rigid beliefs and put their enmity aside with the Elves, as they all need to turn to each other to fight the approaching evil. Where in your life can you redefine your relationships and let go of past battle scars?

Gollum is one of my favourite characters. I actually have a statuette of him that sits proudly in front of my computer. He is frightening to behold, downright fugly. Very young children are afraid of him, and many adults despise him. Why do I love Gollum?

I believe it is for his frailty. It’s easy to love the strong handsome Elves but watching his internal struggle playing out on the screen talking to his “precious” and whether he listen to his dark side or his morality, he is endearing to me. Perhaps this is like listening to your intuition, the good in all of us that exists but needs to be acted upon.

I guess because I believe we all have a bit of him in us – Jung’s shadow side. That dark part that sits in contrast to the lightness of being. Vital for vulnerability it is ultimately what brings us closer into contact with our humanity and intimacy.

Up to you now.

What will your Quest be for this year? What treasure will you discover through your relationships with other and your journey through the months?

My Quest for you is to put your adventure and dreams on paper, starting today.

Know that relationship coaching can help you build your dreams, with a mentor by your side to help guide you through the tricky bits.

Find your treasure today.

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